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Best Way To Divorce USA Step 3

Best Way To Divorce USA Step 3

Proof Of Service:


Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115) tells the court you had the papers served on your spouse or domestic partner.

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Best Way To Divorce: Step 2 – Proof Of Service


Letting the court know that the papers have been served on the Respondent:

Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115) tells the court you had the papers served on your spouse or domestic partner.

Once the Respondent has been served, you will need to make sure that the Court has proof of service. For the initial divorce papers, this proof is given with a form called the Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115). 

If you have served by mail, the completed Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt must be attached to the Proof of Service of Summons. Completing this form correctly is vital to moving your divorce forward, and missing any of the information will result in delays. You will also need to file your proof with the court.


Letting the court know that the Respondent Has Responded To The Petitioner:

Personal service happens when your server personally hands your spouse the divorce papers and blank response form or forms. That doesn’t mean it has to be a surprise or done in an embarrassing manner, as the date and time of service can be scheduled. You do not have to serve your spouse in a public venue, such as their place of employment. Embarrassing your spouse or trying to inflict pain is rarely a good choice. While it may make you feel better initially, you may come to regret your decision when it causes further conflict and increased litigation. Finally, at all costs, avoid having your spouse served in front of your children.

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The information and videos on this guide applies to England and Wales only. The law may be different if you live in Scotland or Northern Ireland. We have simplified things in this guide. Please don’t rely on this guide as a complete statement of the law. We recommend you try and get advice from the sources we have suggested.